The Digital Divorce Resource Guide

Social Media Management (8 resources)

Facebook Account Deactivation & Deletion Guide FreeArticle
Official Meta guide covering the difference between deactivation and permanent deletion, data download steps, and timeline.
Instagram: Download Your Data FreeTool
Export all photos, messages, and activity before removing shared content or deactivating a joint account.
Social Media During Divorce: What Not to Post FreeArticle
Attorney-reviewed guide on how posts, check-ins, and photos can be used as evidence in custody and asset disputes.
Social Media Dos and Don'ts During Divorce FreeArticle
Comprehensive list of social media behaviors to avoid — from relationship status changes to venting about your ex.
Google Privacy Checkup Tool FreeTool
Walk through your Google account privacy settings: location history, shared devices, app permissions, and ad personalization.
TikTok Data & Privacy Controls FreeArticle
How to download your TikTok data, remove linked accounts, and control who sees your activity and liked videos.
YouTube Privacy & Safety Settings FreeTool
Manage watch history visibility, subscriptions, and shared family plan access. Critical for joint Google accounts.
Setting Social Media Boundaries After a Breakup FreeArticle
Therapist-reviewed framework for deciding what to hide, delete, or keep — and when to take a complete break.

LastPass FreePaidTool
Password manager with shared folder revocation. Remove access to shared credentials instantly without changing every password.
1Password PaidTool
Transfer shared vaults between accounts. Separate personal logins from joint ones with granular access controls.
Have I Been Pwned? FreeTool
Check if shared email addresses have been exposed in data breaches. Essential before changing credentials post-separation.
Apple: Remove a Device from Your Account FreeArticle
How to sign out of shared Apple IDs, remove devices, and separate iCloud accounts without losing your data.
How to Split Streaming Accounts After Divorce FreeArticle
Step-by-step for separating Netflix, Spotify, Disney+, and other shared streaming profiles and payment methods.
Google: Remove Account Access from Apps & Sites FreeTool
Revoke third-party app access to your Google account. Prevents shared apps from accessing your data post-separation.
Bitwarden FreePaidTool
Open-source password manager. Free tier supports unlimited devices — ideal for establishing your own secure credential vault.
Amazon Household Separation Guide FreeArticle
How to leave an Amazon Household, separate Prime benefits, and remove shared payment methods and addresses.

Social Security: my Social Security Account FreeTool
Secure your SSN online. Monitor for identity theft — divorce periods see a 30% spike in fraudulent credit activity.
Annual Credit Report FreeTool
Free credit reports from all three bureaus. Check for joint accounts, authorized user status, and unfamiliar inquiries.
DeleteMe PaidTool
Removes your personal info from 750+ data broker sites. Prevents your new address and phone from being easily found online.
Google: Remove Outdated Content Tool FreeTool
Request removal of personal information from Google search results — old addresses, phone numbers, and images.
Complete Checklist: Changing Your Name Online FreeArticle
Every account and platform to update after a name change: email, social, banking, insurance, subscriptions, and more.
Apple Data & Privacy Portal FreeTool
Download a copy of your Apple data, correct your personal info, and deactivate or delete your Apple ID entirely.
How to Remove Yourself from the Internet FreeArticle
Comprehensive walkthrough for scrubbing your digital footprint — from old forum posts to public records aggregators.
Experian Fraud Alert & Credit Freeze FreeTool
Place a fraud alert or credit freeze with all three bureaus. Free and takes under 15 minutes — do this immediately post-separation.

ABA: Collecting Electronic Evidence Tips FreeArticle
American Bar Association guidance on what digital evidence is admissible, how to preserve it, and common mistakes to avoid.
How to Take Screenshots That Hold Up as Evidence FreeArticle
Include timestamps, URLs, and full context. Learn which screenshot methods preserve metadata that courts accept.
Preserving Digital Evidence: A Complete Guide FreeArticle
How to archive text messages, emails, social media posts, and app data in formats that courts recognize and accept.
Forensic Focus FreeArticle
Digital forensics news, tools, and techniques. Understand what forensic experts can recover from devices and cloud accounts.
Custody X Change: Documenting Digital Evidence FreeArticle
How to organize screenshots, messages, and social media evidence for custody cases. Includes printable evidence log template.
Wire Secure Messenger FreeTool
End-to-end encrypted messaging for communicating with your attorney. Self-destructing messages and screen capture protection.
EFF: Surveillance Self-Defense Tools FreeArticle
Electronic Frontier Foundation guides on securing your devices, encrypting communications, and protecting your digital privacy.

OurFamilyWizard PaidTool
Court-admissible communication logs, shared calendar, expense tracking, and info bank. Most widely accepted by family courts.
TalkingParents FreePaidTool
Unalterable communication records. Free tier includes messaging and timeline. Premium adds PDF exports for court submission.
AppClose FreeTool
Free co-parenting app with messaging, calendar, expense tracking, and third-party access for attorneys and mediators.
Custody Connection PaidTool
Simple custody schedule tracker with swap requests and automatic notifications. Clean interface for busy co-parents.
Coparently FreePaidTool
Shared calendar, expense management, and communication in one app. Free for basic use with premium scheduling features.
FAYR PaidTool
GPS-verified custody tracking, shared expenses, and journal entries. Designed specifically for high-conflict co-parenting situations.
Divvy: Shared Expense Splitting FreeTool
Track and split child-related expenses automatically. Snap receipts, categorize costs, and generate monthly reports for both parents.